I've been a Director at my kink club for two years, going into my third term, and at this point, not sure whether I want to continue with a fourth. It has been a passion of mine for the club to succeed, and I do it on a volunteer basis, so with hard work and determination, I certainly helped to make it a success. With many of the committees we have, our membership has almost hit the 200 mark, which we should achieve in March.
Why is it a passion you ask? Well, it educates those that are curious about kink and BDSM, it teaches them hands on things like rope bondage, flogging, other impact play, and safety above all else. How to do any of what we do should be learned properly, otherwise we can and will seriously hurt someone. We can even be charged with assault if you get right down to it. However, our kink is getting out there and we love sharing it with others!
So, with me being on my third and possibly final term, I felt it necessary to transfer some, if not all, the duties of running the club daily to others. Still have control somewhat since I am the Treasurer, but the physical stuff would be off my plate and have been doing that over the past several months. With our incoming new Board, the guys are getting familiar with the running of the club and have certainly stepped up their game in getting things achieved. It is making my life so much easier.
However, now that I'm not over at the club on a daily basis, I can concentrate on what I do best, which is my business. Spanking asses, shaming and humiliating, and so much more, but loving being a Pro-Domme. Sadly, while it does pay my bills, this is a small city compared to most, and I don't work every day. Which leaves me with time on my hands...and I enjoy being busy.
With that realization, I decided to fill a few hours with on-line financial domination and, after doing a bit of research, registered with a website near the end of September. It was amusing how I registered, will probably never forget it. Technology did not want to work with me the day I got online and had to cam verify with them. Which I did.upside down. *shrugs* But hey, fixed the glitches and both the ladies and subs can hear me laughing with and at them when I chose.
I've sat and watched and learn a lot in the short time I've been there, and have actually made some money from it that's not too bad. I wasn't expecting much since it was on a watch and learn basis more so than me looking for online slaves to own, and I use the term 'wallet-rape' very loosely here, because I don't jump into anything right away. I need to get a feel for things, and got an eye-full that is for sure.
The findoms, that I talk to in the chatroom, have generally been great. A few took me under their wing to give me insight into some of the goings on, added a few subs to my Yahoo or Skype and had some interesting sessions with them. Along with a few finsubs that tribute me graciously, I'm enjoying my time there most days.
I will say I met more people in December for sessions and enjoyed the time I had with each one of them. Look forward to spanking their asses in 2014, as well as taking on more sessions with so many others out there in my community. I will continue with the on-line work but certainly won't be my main focus because to be honest, time vs money, will always be in the forefront of my mind. Real time subs certainly pay more than online, so unless you boys start upping your game, I'm not putting much effort into it, or you. You get back what you give and I always give my all, but I'm certainly not stupid over lost causes. And there sure are plenty of those!
Just like trying to do this blog, life has its 'drama'- the buzz word for the next few years I would imagine, but I handled it the best I know how. I started writing this blog this afternoon to catch my followers up, and had to deal with a cranky furnace at the club. Now that the flurry is over and things have been either cancelled or rescheduled, I'm finishing it....seven hours later. But, at least it is done, although I now have a free night since the club is closed to get the pipes unfrozen and I can't spank anyone's ass to warm up my hands. Brrr..I hate winter!